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Essential Toy Pantry

On the list of awesome jobs I want to have some day is Gift Concierge. (PS Did anyone watch this Lifetime Christmas movie? Adorable. I want her job. Lifetime Christmas movies for life.) I love the hunt for just the right gift that suits that person. Something that won’t get lost in the shuffle. Something that means something to them as much as to you. That, my friends, is not always an easy task. I am still stuck on a couple people myself. But when it comes to children’s gifts, I am never short on ideas.

Christmas is two weeks away. There is little likelihood that you are still in need of another gift guide. Especially since every single web address from Buzzfeed to NPR is offering up the perfect gift to get your family and friends. So let’s not call this a gift guide. Instead I like to think of this list as an Essential Toy Pantry, if you will. New and improved toys are coming out all the time. And you can make yourself crazy trying to keep up. There will probably be a time in your gift hunting life that a child will want that very toy that each and every other child in his or her class has put on their list. Boring. I am not looking forward to that moment. But for now, I am enjoying filling our toy shelves with items that are classic, essential for child development, well made, and leave room for endless open ended play.

First a few rules to pay attention to:

  • Do not focus too much on the age guidelines. These are generally placed on toys for safety, and only occasionally developmentally. But I firmly believe that all toys, aside from choking hazards, can be adapted for children of all ages, with the right creative nudge. Also, even if the child might not be able to play with the toy the minute they rip off the paper, they will grow into this gift. I often give babies and one year olds gifts that seem way out of their developmental stage because children grow sooo quickly (have you heard that before?) and I hate to imagine them outgrowing something, like a rattle, too quickly.

  • I gravitate towards wooden toys over plastic. Wooden toys are better made thus last longer. Although I know you can find chemicals in EVERYTHING I like to think that using natural materials is better for the environment and my children. But also, the wooden toys we have in our home are so lovely I keep them out for display. They are beautiful art. And if I am going to have to stare-at/trip-over something all day, I at least want to enjoy looking at it when it actually is placed neatly on the shelf.

  • To cut back on “stuff” and for the child who has “everything,” choose gifts that are consumable. No matter how cautious you are, children’s toys can overrun your life. I am trying so hard to choose gifts this year that are either part of the essential list, or can be used up. Art supplies are the perfect example of this. Have you ever met a child who doesn’t like stickers? Kids go gaga over that stuff. Trader Joes knows all about this. Stickers may seem obnoxious when they end up stuck to every surface of your home, and body, but they take up minimal storage space. Kids also get excited about things they need like toothbrushes and eating utensils and underwear. It’s true. Well, for now at least.

  • Never underestimate the power of a book. There is no book shelf too small to add more books. I think the greatest way to give a gift is to pair a book with something small. Every little child in my life is getting a gift this way. Even Santa gives books with his toys. A book inspires play.

So what should be filling your Essential Toy Pantry?

Early Learners

These are developmental toys that should be the first toys for a child. Every evaluation and assessment tool uses these for measuring milestones because they lay the foundation for cognitive, language, and motor skills.

Ring Stacker – Everyone has seen the classic plastic rings. These wooden ones are more colorful, and double as great donuts later in play.

Nesting Cups – This toy is great not just for nesting up but it can also be turned into a ball. I love a toy that can be played in multiple different ways.

Cause/Effect Toy – There are many toys that meet this milestone but I love these little ball and hammer sets.

Shape Sorter – Matching shapes is a great activity, but the beauty of this one is the interesting sensory blocks for each shape.

Instruments – What starts as simple rattles can turn into a musical performance.

Balls – I don’t need to explain this one. Any ball will do. Back and forth play is so important and nothing does that better than a ball. But, as already mentioned, sensory experiences are brain builders so these are especially great tools.

Construction

If I could recommend any gift for anyone it would be a construction toy. Not only does it promote problem solving and fine motor development, but it also allows for open ended play for any child from age 0-99.

Sensory Blocks – First blocks to intrigue the curious learners as they learn to stack.

Wood Blocks – Nothing fancy here but that is exactly ow I like it. The blocks are easy to use, stack well, and you can create as big as your imagination.

MagnaTiles – These may be expensive, very very expensive, but for a good reason. They are addictive, at any age.  Durable and easy to manipulate. I think there is a calming effect with these blocks. We have knock off version which is just as good and we got for a better deal. Check out used sets on craigslist. Just trust me on this one, this toy is one of my favorites in the whole house.

Tool Kit - And you know what makes an essential piece of a good construction? Your own tool set. We got Caroline this one for her birthday and it come out all the time for that important fixing need, or for really tall tower building.

Imaginative Play

I have heard people say before that their child does not enjoy imaginative play. Not. True. This is a child's most important tool for learning, developing, growing, and interacting with the world. This is how they process what they understand and also what they do not. Whether it's a doll, a car, or a rock, a child uses imagination to grow beyond their abilities. I like imaginative play toys to be simple to allow for the child to fill in the gaps.

Doll – Every child, boy or girl, needs a doll. These cloth ones are sweet, cuddly, and come in all sorts of colors to encourage diversity.

Animals – Many of the first sounds a child makes are animal sounds. These great big animals are fun to hold and you can take them anywhere.

Doll House/Farm – Before Barbies take over your world, this is a wonderful way to spark story telling. If your little one is less into little people, a farm is also wonderful for acting out social stories. We have both of these and use them interchangeably. The doll house is awesome because the different rooms can be reconfigured how ever you want, taking a ranch to a skyscraper with a few easy steps. Great for budding architects. 

Kitchen Tools – If there is anything a child loves to do, it is to eat what THEY create. I am always tempted by the different food sets out there. A Sushi set would be so cute! But really a few pots and pans and one food set can complete a kitchen. The rest comes from imagination.

Doctor Kit – Kids are immediately drawn to the doctor kits because it is a frequent yet somewhat confusing experience during young childhood. Pretend play is the best way to work through this and prepare when worried.

Trains – We are jumping into this world, and not just because we have a boy. There are so many different sets but we are really loving the quality of Brio. Santa has his elves busy making a tunnel and bridge set to add to the collection. The great thing about train sets is they are constructive but also imaginative, covering both styles of learning.

Cars and Trucks – Another world I am trying to add more to our collection. Of course, any will do, I love these because they are made from recycled plastic and sturdy to manipulate.

Games and Puzzles

Both games and puzzles create structure and rules for a child to follow, which is obviously important at any age. But this is also where you get to find what interests your child specifically.

Wooden Puzzles – Puzzles are important for math and spatial skills. And these chunky piece puzzles can also be added to pretend play.You can get puzzles in whatever interests the child, animals, cars, numbers, letters, shapes, colors. It doesn't really matter, the matching and spatial awareness is the learning opportunity here.

Big Piece Puzzles – With a little guidance, Caroline is becoming interested in these really big piece puzzles. The point in which the picture finally comes together is so excited, for any kid or adult.

Games – By age three, games become more interesting and following guidelines is easier for a child. All the great ones we grew up with are still out there. But I am intrigued by this collection of games that encourage cooperation by all people playing to a final ending together. No, we don’t all have to be winners, but encouraging working together is so important.

Bath Toys

Bath toys are a great option for any child because regardless of age or personality, a kid has to take a bath, why not make it fun? These are some of our favorites or some I hope to add to our collection.

Crayons

Pipes

Ducks

Stacking Ducks

Books

There are plenty of choices here for any great Toy Pantry and hopefully gifts that can keep every child in your home entertained and learning. Then again, you could always just give them a box. They always seem to enjoy playing with a box. 

Happy Playing to You!

Advent Book Calendar

Oh it is magical around here, folks. Christmas time is upon us, the calendar is flipped to December, the lights are twinkling, and there is pine and gingerbread wafting through the air. All of the Christmas is happening in our house. We spent the weekend pretending we were snowed in, and actually in Texas terms we were because it was a bitter 45 degrees and it was PRECIPITATING! Stock up on milk, lock those doors, and get under a blanket, we are NOT going outside. And being “stuck inside” is the perfect excuse to deck all of the halls and usher in the season of Advent.

I have so many words for Christmas and my love of this magical season. But sometimes it is best to turn to the words of others by getting lost in a book. It is no secret that I love books. I believe they are a driving force behind learning and imagination for a child, and for the child at heart. So naturally, at Christmas time, reading books is exactly the tradition we need. Learning about giving and love and kindness and magic and miracles all through the pages of a book. I cannot think of a better way to slow down during this busy time – on the couch, by the tree, snuggled under a blanket, and reading about Christmas.

Last year we started an advent tradition that I plan on maintaining for as long as my little ones will tolerate it. For each day of Advent leading up to Christmas we opened up a new book to read. An Advent Book Calendar. Chocolate is tasty and treats are fun, but more sweets and junk is not necessary around here. A book,however, now that is never in too much abundance around here. Each day, as we draw closer to Christmas, we watch the pile under the tree grow smaller and the stories on the book shelf grow larger.  

But gathering 24 books (or more, we started on the night before the first Sunday of Advent so that means three extra books this year!) seemed a daunting, and expensive, task. I am sure eventually our collection of favorite Christmas books will grow and we will have too many to pick from. For now, though, the one place that always offers an abundance of FREE books is the library. And I have learned that if you want the best Christmas books, you have to start collecting (hoarding) in early November (and fingers crossed you can keep renewing them!) The other great thing about pulling books from the library is we get the chance to try out new books each year.  Some of our favorites from last year are back in the rotation as well as new finds. And those that are the most loved become purchased to read year after year. Building this Christmas Book Library is becoming one of my favorite traditions.

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Now, because I was feeling especially caught up in the Christmas Spirit, I also decided it would be fun to add an activity to go along with each book. Sometimes this means a craft, sometimes it means an outing or experience. I wrote the name of each book on the back so as the month goes along if I think a particular book would be better for a certain activity we have planned, I can switch the tags around for that day (washi tape for the win!) I believe there is someone in this house who has his doubts as to how long I can keep this up. So far I am three for three, so I’ll let you decide who to bet against. And later in the month I’ll share some of our favorite activities.

Below is our book list this year in case you wanted to read along with us, add a few more books to your collection, insert into gift lists, or raid your local library. And remember, traditions can begin at any time. If you don’t have 24 books, start later in the month. Just like diets and TV series, it’s never too late to start.

Happy Season of cozy snuggling on the couch by the tree and reading!

Advent Book Calendar 2015

Giving Manger by Allison Hottinger – More on this in a later post to come. A great way to encourage giving during this season.

The Gingerbread Friends by Jan Brett – The Gingerbread baby gets lonely during the day and needs some friends.

The Spirit of Christmas by Nancy Tillman – One of our favorite authors and illustrators shares the best part about Christmas, spending time with those we love.

The Snowman by Raymond Briggs – I adored this book and movie as a child. With no words, only amazing illustrations, you follow the story of a little boy and the night his snowman came to life.

The Polar Express by Chris Van Allsburg – This book likely needs no introduction. A boy travels to the North Pole by train one night and is given a magical gift.

Christmas in the City by Loretta Krupinski – Two country mice experience a big city Christmas when their home becomes the Rockefeller Christmas Tree.

Just Right For Christmas by Birdie Black – Little animals learn the joy of giving and finding the right gift for someone you love.

Song of the Stars by Sally Lloyd-Jones – “It’s Time! It’s Time!” All of the animals of the earth, from the Whales to the Sand pipers were rejoicing when the King was born. This book brings me to tears.

Christmas Cookies by Amy Krouse Rosenthal – Through the act of baking Christmas cookies, this book teaches wise lessons as well as wonderful new vocabulary words.

Dream Snow by Eric Carle – An old farmer dreams of snow for Christmas to cover his animals and magically his dream comes true. The magic of this book is in the end when he prepares for Christmas.

Christmas Farm by Mary Lyn Ray – The story of two unusual friends who come together to start a Christmas tree farm. A lesson in growing and working together.

Star Bright by Alison McGhee – A little angel tries to find the most perfect gift for baby Jesus, on that is worthy of his holiness. A lesson that even the smallest of us can be a shining star.

The Nutcracker by Alison Jay – A beautifully illustrated version of a favorite Christmas story, only second to seeing the real performance. See the Nutcracker through the glass of a snow globe.

The Christmas Visitors by Karel Hayes – The city dwellers decide to spend a simple Christmas in their summer cottage. But it is the bears who surprise them decorating for Christmas.

How the Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr. Seuss – Another book that needs no introduction. I am hoping Dr. Seuss can make an impression on how to encourage the true holiday spirit.

Who would like a Christmas Tree  by Ellen Bryan ObedThis tells the story of the Christmas tree and who uses it every month of the year. Bringing the importance of nature into the Christmas story.  

Angelinas Christmas by Katharine Holabird – It is fun to bring in familiar characters at Christmas time, and Angelina is one of our favorites.

If you Take a Mouse to the Movies by Laura Numeroff – The same lovable mouse with so many ideas is back for a little Christmas version. This just gives us an excuse to watch a movie and eat popcorn.

Listen to the Silent Night by Dandi Daley Mackall – This tells the Christmas story of Jesus through the sounds that Holy Night, that was actually “not such a silent night.”

The Birds of Bethlehem by Tomie dePaola – The Nativity story told through the eyes of all the colorful birds that were there that night.

The Christmas ABC by Florence Johnson – A Little Golden Book that takes you through the alphabet at Christmas time. Letter recognition is big in this house now so this should be a fun one.

The Innkeeper’s Daughter by Carol Greene – A little girl who is not very nice learns about forgiveness and love when she meets the new baby Jesus and learns why he is special.

The Hedgehog Christmas Tree by Kathryn Jackson – Most of the smell is starting to go away, but this classic scratch and sniff book shares the wonderful scents of the season.

Fancy Nancy Splendiferous Christmas by Jane O’Connor – What could be more fancy than Fancy Nancy at Christmas? Teaches what happens when things don’t turn out quite as planned.

The Berenstain Bears Meet Santa Bear by Stan and Jan Berenstain – Another book with favorite characters, this time the bears learn a bit about Santa.

And Now We Call him Santa Claus by Kay Tutt – An online story I printed off to tell about who Saint Nicholas actually was without spoiling the magic of Santa.

What are you reading? What books should we include next year?